‘We have always been civil’: My sister refuses to replace me as executor. Can I step down before she dies?

Core Impact Points

• The individual's sister refuses to replace them as executor, despite their strained relationship.
• The sister hasn't been in contact with the individual for over 20 years, since their mother's funeral.
• The individual is seeking to step down as executor, but is unsure of the process and potential consequences.
• The situation highlights the importance of having a clear plan for estate management and executor responsibilities.
• In the US, executors are responsible for managing the estate, paying debts, and distributing assets according to the will or state laws.
• If the individual steps down as executor, they may be liable for any mistakes or oversights made during their tenure.